How to Use a Wand Vibrator

Wand vibrators have a flexible or firm head on a handle and a stronger, broader rumble than a bullet. how to use a wand vibrator is about letting the head rest against the body rather than grinding. They are popular for clitoral stimulation and for sore shoulders — use a clean head and wash it if you move from body massage to genital use.

Hold it, do not press

Brace the handle so your wrist stays relaxed. Rest Bodywand Mini or Satisfyer Wand-er Woman against the vulva, clitoral hood, or perineum. If the motor is too strong, keep underwear on, use a folded towel, or stay on the first setting. Mini wands are easier to control than full-size mains-powered massagers.

Positions

• On your back, wand between the thighs, handle toward the knees.
• Straddling a pillow, wand on the pillow so you control pressure with your hips.
• Partner holding the wand so you can keep your hands free — agree on a pause word.

In-stock wands

Bodywand Mini is a compact Bodywand if you want less bulk. Satisfyer Wand-er Woman and Satisfyer Planet Wand-er are Satisfyer rechargeable wands. Fun Factory VIM is a Fun Factory rumbling wand if you prefer a deeper motor. Shop wand vibrators. For pinpoint instead of rumble, switch to how to use a bullet vibrator.

Lube, noise, and cleaning

A drop of JO H2O water-based lube on the head reduces friction. Wands are louder than bullets — not ideal if you need silence. Clean the head after every genital session; JO Misting Toy Cleaner works on silicone heads. Details: how to clean a vibrator.

During sex

Full-size wands are awkward in tight positions. Use the wand for warmup, then a bullet or vibrating ring during penetration. Mini wands fit better than large heads.

Frequently asked questions

Are wand vibrators only for external use?

The large head is meant for outside the body. Do not insert a wand head unless the product is specifically an insertable design.

Why do my hands go numb?

You are gripping too hard or using a high setting for too long. Switch hands, lower the speed, or use a mini wand.

Can I use a wand on a partner’s penis?

Yes, with lube and low speed, especially on the perineum or shaft. A dedicated cock rings may stay put more easily.